A Soccerdad’s Love

Wednesday, March 26, 2008 The Great Conversation leads to a Great Impact

A guy named Curtis Tanner served as the best man in my wedding. Curtis and I both attended Samford University. He was a few years older.

Curtis was the primary founder of the ministry known as Campus Outreach. Campus Outreach is a student-led ministry which is committed to helping folks grow in their spiritual life and then teaching them to help others. Some would call this the ministry of Second Timothy 2:2 where Paul tells Timothy, ‘And the things you have heard from me in the presence of many, these entrust to Faithful men who will be able to teach others also. (II Timothy 2:2).

The Great Conversation between Nicodemus and Jesus that night in the house took place before a small gathering of folks. These men were followers of Christ. They were the type of “faithful” men Paul talks about in II Timothy 2:2 who heard Jesus discuss a life with God in the presence of many.

Those present must have wondered what impact the words of Jesus would have on this leader from the Pharisees named Nicodemus.. It was during this conversation that the term, ‘you must be born again,’ was shared. Christ would eventually share the meaning of ‘born again’ through the declarations that God loved the world so much that He sent His Son Jesus from heaven and that whosoever would fully embrace God would have the opportunity of spending eternity with Him.

We would later learn that after Jesus was crucified that Joseph of Arithmathea from the Jewish group known as the Sandedrin and Nicodemus himself would ask the man in Charge (Pilate) for the body of Christ. John 19:38-42 shares that Nicodemus brought 75 lbs of various incense and with Joseph, wrapped the body of Christ. One can easily see that years after the meeting between Jesus and Nicodemus that the Great Conversation had a great impact of Nicodemus.

We also must teach ‘faithful’ men about God in the presence of others — and have faith that in due time, a Great Impact will occur.

Tuesday, January 29, 2007 : Jesus Sheds Light on the Comments of Nicodemus: One Condition

Max Lucado’s book, 3:16 . . The Numbers of Hope, puts the popular verse, John 3:16, into proper focus. The verse of course arises out of the conversation between Nicodemus and Jesus. Nicodemus has just indicated why he risked his personal reputation and status by coming to Christ at nite. He had just verbally expressed a position that was out of sync with that of his fellow Pharisees. Simply put, he had acknowledged that Jesus was a “teacher from God” and that God was “with him” (Jesus) (John 3:2).

It is not clear whether Nicodemus sought a similar affirmation from Jesus, … or sought to establish himself as different from his fellow Pharisees and wanted Jesus to know that he recognized and respected Jesus as a man of God.

Jesus does articulate what was required to see the kingdom of God. I like the phrase used by Billy Graham in the title of one of his books, “Peace with God”. The Response of Jesus was to clearly and simply communicate what was required to be at peace at God, “Unless one is born again, one cannot see the kingdom of God”. (John 3:3) There are conditions and requirements before one can be at peace with God.

The articulation of the condition to be at peace with God is an issue we all must address. Each person present must have also wondered what was required to be at peace of God.

Certainly, Nicodemus, as a public teacher of spiritual matters, had developed ideas on what was required to be at peace with God. Jesus does not mention that there are many possible ways or many vehicles for one to achieve peace with God and see the kingdom of heaven. He also does not mention any particular effort or code of conduct… good or bad each man must pursue. Instead, he mentions the spiritual act of “being born again.”

One can ponder long and hard on the words of Christ. This is the context of the Great Conversation where Jesus says the words of John 3:16, ” “For God so Loved the World, that He gave His one and only begotten Son, that whosoever believes in Him, should not perish, but shall have everlasting life.” (John 3:16).

Monday, January 28, 2007

I had a very nice time this weekend with Joel. He and I went to a movie together on Saturday nite. . . and then had breakfast together Sunday morning. I regret with all of my heart that we are not living together. I miss being in the same room or house with him and Felicia, and just the comfort one’s presence can bring.

I hope we can live together in an apartment or home for his senior year of h.s. I am thankful that we have the opportunity to ride together to school each morning so we have some time to enjoy each other’s company. Listening to the Steve Harvey morning show together has become a special joy and treat.

Joel and I have talked about going to church together on Sunday mornings. The dad of one of his teammates named Jarrod Bookins is pastor of a church in the area. It would be very nice to attend church together for spiritual input a few times a month.

Joel has matured so much as a young man.. and some because of circumstances. I feel badly that he and mom are living with the Martins.. and that within a short span we no longer live under the same roof and both Jonah and Josh are away at college. I hope that he and the boys realize how much I deeply love each of them and want the best for them.

My hope is that Joel can go to a good school. Going to college is the best opportunity for the boys to have a new life and be free the issues we have faced.

Thursday, January 24, 2007

The words that Nicodemus initially shared that nite were rather striking. In a moment that was filled with obvious tension and interest, Niocodemus shares comments that tell every person present that his view of Christ was quite different than those held by his fellow Pharisees, the group that would one day recommend and support the crucifixion of Christ.

Nicodemus makes two initial comments, captured by scripture, “Rabbi, we know that you are a teacher come from God; for no one can do the signs that you do unless God is with him.” (John 3:2 KJV)

Under the circumstances, the comments of Nicodemus were very profound. He openly put aside the sentiments of his fellow Pharisees. He also openly expressed his heart’s belief that “God was with this man called Jesus”. It is clear that this public figure and ruler of the Pharisees was embracing the concept of a living God, and that this God was working thru this man called Christ.

Nicodemus acknowledged that no one could do the signs that Jesus was doing unless God was with him. Nicodemus clearly wanted to know more, and understand more, about the spiritual dimension of Christ. My hope is that the boys.. Jonah, Josh & Joel… will have similar heart-to-heart conversations with God, and with those people they meet whose lives reflect a genuine commitment to Christ.

This initial sentence from Nicodemus set the tone of the meeting that nite. Every person present now knew that Nicodemus was not there on behalf of his fellow Pharisees to make threats, challenge Jesus or anything along those lines. Nicodemus was there for his own spiritual needs. As a leader in those times, of a group not popular with Christ, Nicodemus was humbly acknowledging that the current sentiment of the day that the Pharisees and religious leaders alone had a special relationship with God simply was not true.

The conversation between Nicodemus and Jesus had begun. It would end with a comment from Christ that would mmarize how a man finds God. “For God so Loved the World, that He gave His one and only begotten Son, that whosoever believes in Him, should not perish, but shall have everlasting life.” (John 3:16).
Dad

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Wednesday, January 23, 2007

I have immensely enjoyed driving Joel to school each morning. We have both come to enjoy “The Steve Harvey Morning Show” with comedian Steve Harvey… and particularly the ‘Strawberry Letter’ where folks write in about the personal relationships and both Steve and Shirley Stawberry, a co-anchor, reply to the letter. Shirley’s response is intended to be sound advice from the heart. Steve’s advice is both from the heart with an incredible comedic slant that brings joy to the heart.

That show also features the best R & B music which, as Steve often shares, are love stories with words pregnant with meaning. It has brought back so many old memories. I also find myself identifying and relating to the words shared by the artist as he (or she) pours out her heart in song. I love the “Freedom Friday” show where on Fridays Steven’s nephew, Nephew Tommy, and Shirley, try to outdo each other with memorable love songs from the past.

This morning, I had planned to skip my traditional quiet time but as the morning progressed, I realized that I missed that time of reflection. My quiet time before the Lord provides food for my heart and soul perhaps more than I realize.

One reason that I had considered skipping my quiet time is that I want to address other events of my life and the world around me. In one respect, I want to do this through a separate blog as a vehicle to earn $ from writing and blogging. From this standpoint, I wonder if I should just have a separate blog that can be ‘monetized’. From a different standpoint, I think to myself that regardless of whether I monetize the blog, the overall purpose is to provide a spiritual outlet for myself and for the boys, and Jonah, Josh and Joel to have a permanent record to read about dad and the things that he thought about and were meaningful to him.

Time and awkwardness make it difficult to talk about some issues. Sometimes, a letter or blog can do that for someone. Well, most of all, I hope the boys and Felicia realize how much I deeply love them. I wish I could have been a better dad, and provide them more financially. Yet, I accept the ups and downs that life brings.

One of my hopes for 2008 is to set aside ten (10%) of my earnings on a regular basis for spiritual or charitable purposes. I have started sending my tithe to a Paypal account called “TheStewartTithe@gmail.com. The heading on each message is the same, “A Tithe of Thanks”.

I am so thankful that directly, or through the caring hearts of others, God has met our basic needs. I once recall Max Lucado sharing in his book, 3:16 . . . The Numbers of Hope that we often overlook the manna from heaven where God provides for our basic needs in a manner just as real and just as concrete as when He provided manna for the children of Israel. Yes, there is much in life to be thankful for; I will be forever thankful and grateful for the opportunity to be a dad and the wonderful times I have shared with the boys.

Dad

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